HOW TO ASK A GIRL OUT OVER TEXT

Ok so you met her, shes cool, and you actually like her… Now is the time to ask her out… But you’re not exactly sure how to do that…Well bud, I’ve got you covered…Here’s a few tips on how to ask a girl out over text…





HOW TO ASK A GIRL YOU LIKE OUT OVER TEXT





1. GETTING HER TO MEET UP


Although there are a lot of fun things you can do with text, the ultimate goal is ALWAYS to meet up with the woman you are interested in. The amount of attraction and comfort you have build when you initially met her and over text since you got her # greatly determine her willingness to meet up with you again. Equally as important is the way in which you invite her. The way you invite her demonstrates how comfortable you are with yourself and the way you view the world.


Remember, it is always up to you to make her feel comfortable with the thought of meeting again. Your best strategy for avoiding any hiccups in setting up your next date is to anticipate any problems she might have with it. You need to remove her hesitations from meeting up with you before she ever has the opportunity to think about them. There are many different strategies you can use to help alleviate her hesitations while simultaneously demonstrating you are the type of man worthy of her time.





2. PLANT THE SEED





In order to better ensure a woman will accept your invites to hang out, you can do something called "Seeding The Invite". You plant the "seed" of the invite before it is even offered. The premise is to ask her a question regarding things that are involved with the event/party/place that you are inviting her to that she will mostly likely agree with enjoying. The secret is to make the things associated with the event sound incredibly fun. So much so that it would be strange for her not to say yes.





Example 1: Taco Tuesday





"Hey cookie monster, do you like tacos, margaritas, good music and great company?"





Example 2: Comedy Club





"So Princess Sparkles do you have a good sense of humor and like laughing so hard you pee your pants? (ok don’t actually pee your pants…that’s gross…lol) "





IMPLYING THE INVITE





A woman can’t say no to hanging out if you never actually ask her. By implying or suggesting the possibility of inviting her to hang out you not only show you are still uncertain about hanging out with her, but can also find out if she is able to make it before you actually invite her.





Examples:





"I was gonna invite you to..."


"I was considering inviting you..."


"There is a possibility I might invite you..."


This is the perfect way to lead into using a false disqualifier or hang out requirements.





HOW TO ASK A GIRL OUT OVER TEXT


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